Don’t make it too personal
Do you really believe that users are paying attention to gradients you made? or did they notice that one line stroke you made for couple hours?
When designing something, it’s easy to get drowned into the process itself, complexing the solution with ego, you get obsessed with details, because the details matters. You put so much care on every pixels you’ve drawn, you nit picky margin between elements and white space around texts. You probably thought, that this design is a representation of yourself, you made it soo personal or maybe way too personal. Take the ownership they said, but is this ownership really a good thing?
You were in the designer’s high until you bring your work in front of fellow designers, get it out the door to testers and within seconds you realised things are started to fall apart. Your designer friend was asking the reasoning behind location of shiny glossy...